MommyVonZechs: Happy Birthday, Kak Ida.........

August 19, 2008 is kak Ida's birthday. Now she is 10 years old. She has been get teen now, so there some changes will happen to her. She also has often asked about many things related to the many events that will be happen to women in common. In this case, I need to choose the prompt terms in order that I can explain about all of her question, such as about menstruation, because even though she has not got it, but there are several of her friends has been getting menstruation. Beside that, she also has been got this lesson from school (she is studying in Sekolah Dasar Islam or Muslim Elementary School, so since in fourth level, she has got the lesson about Thaharah and other lesson related to Fiqih). The other questions are about having a boyfriend and get relationship with other opposite sex.
One things that I have been stressing on her is about how to be a good muslim woman, so in this case she must keep about how to get dressed, how to keep praying on time (Kak Ida alwaysbring 'MUKENAH' when she goes to school since she was in third class, and I and my husband always attempt to give Uswah for all my children to pray on time), how to manage time in order that always remember Allah (we have routine programs related to religion or spiritual learning, sucha as chitation Al Quran, everyday in the morning, in Thursday night, and others), how to keep in order that she does not imitate the inappropriate culture such as having make up (tabarruj) etc. Even though I have some guidance and regulation for her, but I still give my tolerance for her childish attitude because indeed, she is still too young and still child.....
So, in this time I also would like to celebrate her birthday simply.